Hubud Lubud (Revisited)

In this cycle, we are working on Hubud Lubud (tying and untying), a drill common to many FMA systems - including ours.  I have written about the benefits of this training in prior posts (even using the same picture), but it is worthy of a deeper explanation here.

In my 2014 post (linked above), I explained the Hubud Lubud drill as a beneficial training method and briefly explored some of the ways in which it can be used to build skills and understanding of key FMA principles.  To go a little deeper, I have been using this drill as a platform or blueprint from which I am teaching the following bodies of knowledge:

1) Basic Hubud Lubud Empty Hand Pattern --- the basic drill, done on right and left sides, including various ways to switch from right hand to left hand feeds.

2) Weapons Training --- using this pattern to explore similar movements done with knife/karambit/stick/scarf.  FCS and Doce Pares also include (at least) the stick version of hubud lubud in their curriculum and it makes a particularly nice segue when used to transition from single stick 5-count sombrada to punyo sombrada patterns.  The knife/karambit versions are an effective way of starting to understand passing/trapping with blades, especially in CQB/corto distance.

3) Guntings --- Kali Majapahit's commonly taught hubud lubud patterns include several variations of classic horizontal/vertical elbow and pass/split knuckle guntings.  In particular, we drill a 5  step pattern that includes elbow guntings (inside/outside/sandwich) followed by low and high elbow locks.  Inosanto Kali includes these principles, as seen here in a video by Sifu Paul Vunak.

4) Hakka Kuntao 5 Gates --- Since Hubud Lubud is performed at corto (close) distance, it is an ideal base to develop hakka kuntao flows.  In Kali Majapahit, we use Hubud Lubud (often with an angle 2 reply) to see the common trapping concepts  of Hakka Kuntao, specifically scooping/passing/tan sao/bong sao/fook sao - also known as Hakka "5 Gates".

5) Aiki Flows --- My background in Traditional Japanese Martial Arts (Takeda Ryu Aikijujitsu and Yoshinkan Aikido) instilled in me the importance of learning to control the opponent's hands/wrists, called "Te No Tori" (手の取り）, a kind of Aiki version of Chi Sao.  The framework of Hubud Lubud lends itself very well to these setups, and I teach them often on both right and left sides.  Some of my favorites include applications of Ikkajo, Hiji Shime, Kata Shime, Kote Gaeshi, Ude Garame (short and full), Ushiro Udegarame, Shiho Nage, Shomen Irimenage, Sokumen Iriminage and others.  Using an angle 2 reply (see above) allows drilling most of these on the left side as well.

6) Multiple Angles/Lines --- Most students spend the majority of their training on the basic (angle 1) Hubud Lubud drill.  In fact, variations of this drill include other angles as well.  In particular, angle 5 (straight punch) and angle 2 (backhand) and two of the most common variations.  Hubud Lubud applications also exist for elbow strikes as well (usually received with a Sin 6 outside pass).  Once these are understood, Hubud Lubud can be trained with a combination of different attacks, thus becoming a more comprehensive flow drill.  See also this excellent example done by Guro Peter Weckauf of SAMI Systems.

Furthermore, advanced variations of Hubud Lubud include passing from high line to low line (often including guntings) as a way to drill redirection of the attacks.  This is a very helpful drill for knife defense and knife versus knife flow.

Standard Hubud Lubud etiquette suggests that we respond with whatever attack we are fed (if given angle 1 we give back angle 1, etc), but for a more advanced drill random angles (angle 1/2/5/elbow) can be fed back and forth.

One three-month cycle is barely enough to scratch the surface of all the learning that can be gained from studying this foundation movement and its many applications.  Please consider the above and how you can use this template to your maximum training benefit.

More to come... 

Blueprints for Success

Filipino martial arts differs from "traditional" Japanese, Korean and even Indonesian/Malaysian martial arts in many ways.  One of the most obvious is the lack of forms or "kata" in FMA.  We do have a wide variety of drills, but most FMA systems do not have forms or "kata" the way they are usually seen in other traditional fighting arts.  Forms were historically used as blueprints: a way of preserving techniques and transmitting them to larger groups in a consistent way before the advent of detailed texts and manuals.  We know the origins of many kata from various styles of Karate, Tae Kwon Do, Hapkido, Aikido, Judo, Wing Chun and even some styles of Silat (Jurus) and yet we do not clearly know the origins of many of the old, traditional kung fu katas, for example.

In FMA, we tend to use patterns or templates as a way of illustrating key concepts, but rarely with the idea that they are a fixed format for fighting.  These templates or patterns show a basic combination, and can then be "flavored" with other guntings/strikes, set ups for clinches/take downs/throws/chokes/strangles, or even modified to be done with a variety of different weapons including sticks, knives, karambits, scarves and so on.

Recently, Tuhon Kit Acenas of Kali Mundo visited Tokyo to conduct a joint seminar with Guru Maul Mornie of Silat Suffian Bela Diri - both experienced masters at the highest levels of their respective arts.  They worked in combination, taking turns teaching their two different styles (PTK and SSBD) from the same basic template.  Tuhon Kit referred to it as a "platform" and I really liked this expression.  A platform is a starting point or foundation, on top of which other structures can be built.  Over the course of a fantastic training weekend we built a lot on top of the platforms that Tuhon Kit and Guru Maul kindly shared.  My own teacher, Guro Fred, uses the term "solutions" and I like this very much also.  "Solutions" suggest more than one single possible answer, and include the idea of creative and dynamic problem-solving.

I often see students doing their best to exactly imitate the movements they see in a platform.  This is important, especially early on, since we need to train the eyes to observe the various important parts of technique - footwork, hand position, weight shift, kuzushi, atemi, irimi, distance.  At some point, however, we must learn to go beyond, to build on the platforms we are given, and to take them in new directions.  This is the basis for discovering our own "flow".

In summary, it is important to respect the form/pattern/drill/template, but not to the extent that we become a prisoner of it.  Use every drill fully, wring out every last drop of knowledge you can, but then break apart, break through and extend/expand beyond the limitation of it so you can achieve actual mastery.  Use the platforms as foundations to build on, but keep going until the knowledge from them becomes universal and applies to everything else you do.

FMA contains a lot of bodies of knowledge including single/double sticks, several systems of empty hand self defense (striking, kicking, locking, throwing, boxing, grappling), knife/karambit, staff, tomahawk, scarf/sarong, and other improvised/specialized weapons to name but a few.  At first these all seem like disparate sets of understanding, each very different from the others.  In the end, after years of training, they all become one big "knowledge lake" and blend together seamlessly.  In my case, after 10 years of Kali and almost 40 years of martial arts study in total, I feel like things are coming together and becoming part of a common core body of knowledge I can share with my students.  I could not have reached this point simply by mimicking the movements of others.

Keep training.  More importantly, keep learning, growing and exploring.  Eventually it will all come together.

"Obey the principles without being bound by them." - Bruce Lee

The Professional

One of my favorite scenes from one of my favorite movies - Akira Kurosawa's "Seven Samurai" (1954).  Of course, the original epic movie that spawned the western classic "The Magnificent Seven".

Here, we see the master swordsman, Kyuzo, played by the stoic and resolute Seiji Miyaguchi.  He is challenged by a nameless Ronin to test his skill with bokken (wooden swords) and accepts.  He knows he won but his opponent boasts a different story, insisting on it until the score must be settled with steel.  As expected, Kyuzo cuts the man down with a single, well-timed stroke.

Watching carefully, we see the brash and boastful ronin, who is not satisfied with the academic discussion of skill or sparring with the less lethal wooden swords. The ronin cannot accept that another man could be a better swordsman than he and feels desperate to back up his big words.  In front of the crowd, his insecurity and vanity cause him to put his life on the line.  In this case, unfortunately, against a truly superior swordsman.

There are many lessons here.  It is easy to respect Kyuzo as a master who is only interested in becoming the best he can be, and is willing to put that skill to the test to improve himself.  He is not boastful, but rather calm and confident in his skills.  He is not swayed by idle words or threats and ultimately accepts a real duel only when the ronin simply won't give up.  We must always be careful to de-escalate situations where we get challenged, since most people want to test us because of their own fear and insecurity rather than any interest in our skills.  Likewise, knowing there is always someone better, we should never feel a need to display our prowess in front of others. Vanity has no place in proper martial arts training.

Mastery of the sword - in fact, mastery of all martial arts - is really about mastery of the Self.  Mastery of the emotions, especially the Ego.  It is a lifetime process of discovering yourself and growing in your understanding and skill.  It is about looking inward rather than outward - about trying to make yourself better rather than trying to make other people worse.

People are sometimes surprised at the very few times I've had to fight in the past 38 years in and around martial arts.  They shouldn't be.  With nothing to prove and nothing to gain, I simply walk away.  I intend to use my physical skills only if the situation is unavoidable and cannot be resolved in any peaceful manner - really only to protect others from harm.

Last night at a dinner, my old colleague introduced me as a martial arts instructor, which I admitted, and our dinner guest felt the immediate need to want to challenge me with his "unbeatable Wing Chun".  I declined.  Losing might have gotten me injured.  Winning would have gotten me nothing.  Those are fights I always try to avoid.  My ego does not need to be appeased like that.  In such contests, "winning" is actually losing.

I love martial arts.  I love to meet and train with everyone I can regardless of background, so that we can all learn and grow.  I have ZERO interest in a duel of any kind, friendly or otherwise.  I know exactly what I can and cannot do, and feel no need whatsoever to have to prove that to anyone else.

Hagakure, by Tsunetomo Yamamoto, is an excellent book on the stoicism of the martial way, written by a man to his younger peers whom he felt were slowly losing their commitment to The Way.  I read this book in my early studies under my original teacher and it influenced me greatly.  I highly recommend it.

In the meantime, train more.

I Don't Know

"I don't know".  Somehow those three little words seem very hard for many people to say.  Our modern society places such an importance on (the appearance of) being right and on having all the answers - being instantly able to look things up on Wikipedia in order to find something we consider truthful.  Meanwhile, our elected officials lie openly,  directly to our faces without even the slightest shame or fear of being proven wrong.  To them, facts don't matter at all.  We don't care if we are actually right, we just want to "look right" (or at least don't want to look wrong).

Even in martial arts, there is a terrible temptation to think we know everything.  We chase every new technique and scan YouTube relentlessly for something interesting.  Our attention spans get shorter every day it seems, and no amount of new information is enough to keep us from becoming jaded and bored.  The surface knowledge, the easy first steps, are enough to satisfy us and many times we fail to dig deep enough to achieve real understanding.  We forget the importance of patience and perseverance.

As a teacher it is even worse.  When we cross that long-awaited bridge to become a black belt we somehow think that like a video game we instantly have new powers, abilities and knowledge we didn't have the day before we took the test.  Unrealistically, we expect ourselves to know the answers to everything...even when we don't.  Faced with the prospect of admitting we don't know, we may be tempted to make up something that sounds plausible rather than taking the question away to confirm the truth.  We try very hard to live up to others' expectations of us, and even our own expectations of ourselves.  We mean well, but...

However, teaching martial arts is not like teaching Math or English.  Although I am sure there are situations where knowledge of these topics is vital (landing a rocket ship or negotiating with a hostage-taker), the fact is that martial arts knowledge is commonly learned for self-defense.  The wrong answer could get someone hurt, potentially permanently.  Fortunately, martial arts is as much science as any other academic discipline (especially physics).  Voodoo doesn't make it work properly (or any better).  Sound body mechanics, physics, chemistry, nutrition and psychology explain why what we do works.  This is an overlay to the historical, spiritual and philosophical elements that we learn to help give our movements context and cultural relevance.

I've been in and around martial arts since I was 14 years old.  That makes almost 40 years of study and I feel I am just now starting to scratch the surface.  Every time I meet a new master I realize there is so much left for me to explore and learn.  I have read more than 200 books on martial arts (my personal library is probably that many at least) and yet there are probably 500 more I should read for background, not to mention re-reading some of the others.  And yet, I feel like I have hardly scratched the surface.

In Kali Majapahit, I am one of less than 10 people in the world who hold a 2nd degree black belt rank or higher.  After nearly 10 years of study, I think I am starting to understand a bit about what we do and why, and feel reasonably confident to answer the questions of beginners most of the time.  And yet, I feel like I have hardly scratched the surface in my understanding of Filipino and Southeast Asian martial arts.  There is so much culture and history behind all of it that I need at least another 20-30 years to get deep enough to have a good perspective.  I hope I live long enough.  Finally, I know how much I don't know.  I may be a bit further along than some, but I am still on the same path as the rest of us.  I still reach out to my seniors and my peers for answers when I am not 100%.

I prefer the right answer to the convenient answer.

So much of what I have learned came from questions.  Not just my own, but those of others that led me to search for answers and deeper knowledge.  Even this blog, started in 2005 and now with nearly 500 posts, was originally started as a way to put structure around ideas of Yoshinkan Aikido so our class could focus on training and drilling rather than stop for Q & A.

No one knows it all.
Many people know more than I.  That's OK.
It's OK not to know something or to not have the answers all the time.
Finding the answers, the REAL answers, is how we learn and grow.

Learn to be comfortable with not knowing.
Suppress the ego and admit it if you don't know.  There is no shame in it.
Take it away as homework and research the answer thoroughly.  You will learn as much from answering as the other person did from asking (maybe more).

Little By Little

This is a very important video.  It speaks to the value of the small things we do every day that have big results over the course of our lives.  These days we live in a world of superlatives, where everything has to be "Awesome" and exceed everything else.  Our attention spans grow shorter and shorter, and we are desensitized by the mainstream media and social networks to anything but the next most outrageous occurrence.  Our Instagram posts have to show us in exotic locations having more fun than anyone else, bragging about our lives to make ourselves feel more special and important (usually by making everyone else feel worse or inadequate).  There is incredible pressure on us not just to succeed, but to outperform everyone else.  We are told again and again there is no prize for second place.

The reality is very different from this.
If we achieve our own goals and discover our own happiness there is no such thing as second place.
There is no such thing as losing.  In the end, the most important factor for success is not skill - it is PERSEVRENCE.

Please remember the incredible value of the little things in life.
Remember that life is lived in small moments, one second at a time.
It is these small moments that matter most and which should not be taken for granted or wasted.

Show your love to those you care about.  Let your actions define who you really are.

When I was 14, my teacher gave me the example of the Stonecutter.
Every day he struck the stone with his hammer.  Again and again, seemingly to no effect.
Then, after years, the stone finally split, revealing the breathtaking geode inside.
Which blow split the stone?  The last one?  The first one?  Impossible to know.
The result was an accumulation of all the strikes, not just one.  The days teach much the years never know.

Our life is very much like this.
We adore the champion without seeing the sacrifice and training it took to reach that stage.
We admire the actor without seeing the countless hours of struggle and disappointment it took to reach that moment.
We admire strong couples without seeing the little efforts that it takes every day to make a relationship that will stand the test of time.

Let time work for you rather than against you.

IBGYBG

IBGYBG --- meaning?  "I'll be gone, you'll be gone."  I first read this expression in a book about the financial crisis, which suggested it was commonly used between sellers and buyers of highly leveraged CDS instruments.  These were highly risky "hot potatoes" and the underlying message was that even though both parties knew they were dangerous they should just get the deal done, book the commissions and sell them onward since anyway, both seller and buyer would probably be working somewhere else by the time the regulators showed up (if ever).  Sadly, many of them did just that, and CDS instruments were a central part of the crisis, nearly collapsing the entire global financial system.

I began to think about this idea more and more.  "I'll be gone, you'll be gone" suggests that we not worry too much about the details and that our mistakes (deliberate or accidental) are someone else's mess to clean up.  It tells us not to assume permanence of anything - our jobs, our relationships, our future...nothing.  Live in the moment and let the chips fall where they may.  #yolo.

On one hand, I absolutely agree with Buddhist principles of non-attachment.  As Master Yoda cleverly advises Annakin Skywalker (even more cleverly since he's a hand-puppet)  "Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose."  Clinging too tightly to anything strangles the life from it.  It is the greatest illusion to ascribe anything permanent to the transient nature of our lives.  Small as we are in the Greatness of Things, we are born and die in hardly the blink of an eye of the Universal Timeline.  To assume otherwise is tantamount to arrogance.  That being said, the ocean is made up of tiny drops, each one important in its own tiny way.  Our lives matter, and we are here to make meaning.

On the other hand, because "I'll be gone, you'll be gone" I feel a deep desire to make every interaction with someone positive and meaningful.  We may never see that person again, but what we say and how we act could leave a lasting impression on them that makes their life better or inspires them.  All of us have the capacity to be catalysts for positive change not just in ourselves but in others as well - even those we might meet only briefly.  We should neither ignore nor waste the opportunity for sharing.

If we are to be remembered at all after we leave this cycle, it must be for what we did as much or more than what we said.  Our moral center, our ethical framework and most importantly our ability to act with empathy and compassion are what define us as human beings (human doings?).  In our lives we must learn how to love --- ourselves and others, in order to ever truly find happiness, and the connections we make enrich and prolong our lives more than any material possession.  The great paradox is that to be strong we must learn to accept our vulnerability, to live fully we must learn to accept our inevitable death.

In my working life I have tried to abide by the rules my earliest mentors instilled in me, "Do Good Work, and never do anything you would be ashamed of."  In this way, no matter the many companies I have left, I have always been able to walk out just as I walked in: head high, confident in myself and my abilities.  I encourage you to do the same.

I'll be gone someday.  So will you.  All that matters is what we do until then.

Make Every Moment Count.

52 Card Pickup

52 card pickup.
For those of you not familiar with this card game, it's basically a practical joke.  Here are the "rules": one person throws all the cards in the air.  They land everywhere.  The other person then picks them up.  It's also American slang for "a big mess". 

Much of my life has been this way.  Cards everywhere and a slow, methodical pick up.  Over time, order is restored until someone (usually me) throws the proverbial cards in the air again and we start over.

In many ways, the past year has been a great example of 52 card pickup.  In January I started a new job where I had no existing support network, was not familiar with the products or customers, and had to learn new procedures and policies in a group that was itself only formed a year ago.  Somehow, 10 months later most of the cards have been picked up (at least I think they have).

So what keeps me going?

Today as I turn 52 I am more committed than ever to what I believe.
I am clear about what I love:

• I love my family and will work tirelessly to support them.
• I love my friends and I am grateful for their constant support.
• I love my teachers who have given so much of their wisdom to me.
• I love my students and I thank them for walking the Path with me.
• I love my customers and I genuinely want to help them improve what they do.
• I love my bosses and co-workers who inspire me to be my best every day.
• I love my country and I believe we can recover.
• I love other people and I try to treat them all with dignity and respect.
• I love to make people happy and their smiles make me feel good about myself.
• I love solving problems and finding answers, and the thrill of discovery has never faded for me.
• I love writing and trying to get my thoughts organized.  I love sharing my thoughts in case someone might benefit from them (or even just have a laugh).

This year has had some amazing moments.  There have been many big moments to remember, but also many small moments that I am careful to file away so they are not forgotten either.  Life is lived in the small moments.  Actively focusing on them brings a lot more joy than waiting for the big moments to happen.

I am acutely aware that my life is not forever, that I must die when my time comes and there is no adding extra days or minutes to it when the end finally arrives.  It comes for all of us the same, rich and poor, and all we really have are the moments that take us there.  I am pretty sure I am well past half of my life now, but I also think I still have some time left.  I am not afraid of dying.  More importantly, I am not afraid of living.

One of my close friends refers to me as "the most successful person he knows".
Today, on my birthday, I really believe him.

Thank you to everyone who has been part of my success, whether you knew it or not. I remember you and I am grateful for your support.

Black is the New Black

It was a great weekend, long awaited.  Five of my students, many who had been with me from Day 1, tested for their Kadua Guro (1st degree black belt) ranking in Kali Majapahit this past weekend.  As their teacher, their guide, their friend and brother, I couldn't be more proud.  To date, every single black belt in our system (including me) has been personally tested by the founder, Punong Guro Fred Evrard, to meet his exacting standards of excellence.

As per the KM website, there are only 32 active black belts in Kali Majapahit worldwide (now 37).  It is an elite brotherhood of experts committed to making themselves, each other and the world a better place.  We focus on martial arts, health, and personal development as the key areas of growth we use to achieve success in our lives on our own terms.  We share this method with everyone regardless of race, creed, color, nationality or social status.  All are welcome to join our family. We are all ONE. We are all connected.

The test is very difficult.  It usually is done over a weekend, and includes a written test as well as a practical exam.  KM black belts need to recertify every two years minimum to retain their ranks.
The physical part is formidable, including single/double stick flows, empty hand from all subsystems, boxing/kickboxing and knife defense.  Testers are pushed to their physical limits and beyond to see if they can find the willpower and determination to continue even when they are exhausted.

The test always includes "the Circle", where the each tester is put in the center of a ring of other students and black belts who assist.  Again and again they must fend off any kind of attack, including stick, knife, empty hand and continue to do so until told to stop.  It is an incredibly high-stress experience.  Later, they do boxing/kickboxing sparring with a sequence of opponents as their energy gets drained away...shaken, they continue on for nearly two solid hours.

Despite the stress and pressure all the testers performed well and got extremely positive feedback.  More importantly, even under stress they responded WITH CONTROL, and no major injuries occurred.  Rather than passively waiting for attackers to attack, each tester proactively engaged them, controlled the situation, and ended the encounter decisively.  As their instructor, I was convinced in a real self-defense scenario, these men would have been able to defend themselves and their loved ones from harm.  Forged in fire, they earned their black shirts.

Throughout their time as Kasama (assistant instructors), they have demonstrated leadership and maturity, and it has been a pleasure to see them advance their careers, find partners, start their families, and deepen their relationships with the people around them.  They shine brightly, and I like to believe their martial arts has given them confidence to be more...THEM.

Some have said that the martial arts is a lonely path, a lifetime struggle against ourselves to overcome our weaknesses, our limitations, and our doubts.  Instead, this group has shown that it is a fellowship, a brotherhood, a FAMILY that connects us and inspires us, that supports us and encourages us to be our best and to push past our old selves into new growth and awareness.  We are at once both learners and teachers.  More importantly, we smile, laugh, joke and HAVE FUN.  It is not enough to survive; we must THRIVE and prosper.  We do.

It has been a great honor to guide these Kadua Guros to this milestone in their journeys, and I have learned as much from them as they have from me.  Together we have built a strong Kali family here in Tokyo, where everyone is welcome to come and better themselves.

I ("We") will see you on the mats.

Pugay Po.

What Can I do?

Life can be very hard.  These days it seems especially so, somehow much more complex and difficult than it was when I was a kid (and my childhood was far from easy).  We are so, so busy and it seems we can never catch up on our to-do lists, our bills and on all the other various things we wish we had time to do.  Despite technological progress we seem to be expected to always be available to answer work emails, jump on early morning/late night calls or go on business trips (economy class, of course).  TV and media makes us think we should have...well...more.  Several times this month my commute was delayed due to someone committing suicide by jumping in front of a train (last night someone even did that for the Shinkansen, a fast bullet train).  Sadly, they average one per day in Japan.

Beyond this, many people suffering from depression, or even the earliest symptoms of it, say that they feel a deep, unsettling loss of control.  There is a despair and hopelessness that comes from feeling there is nothing you can do about all that is going on.  You are a receiver; a victim.  You might think "there's nothing I can do about it".  Yes, ultimately control is an illusion.  However, our state of mind is very, very real.

Many people you meet focus on what they can't do.  It's a constant litany of denial for everything and everyone.  "I can't get a better job", "I can't write a book or anything like that", "I can't look as good as him/her", "I can't afford it"... the list goes on and on, rooted in negativity.  This thinking closes our minds to the possibility of another method or another outcome being acceptable.  We set unrealistic standards (or allow them to be set on us) and then complain that we can't achieve them.  Before long we stop even trying.  We give up.

Another interpretation of the phrase "what can I do?" focuses on the "I" part.  It highlights the seeming insignificance of our individuality, meaning "I'm just one person, what can I do?"  We can think of so many cases where success or failure was dependent on the actions of an individual.  Where each individual collectively made a difference.  Without individuals there cannot be groups or teams.  Even on our own, we have the power to influence and shape our world, if only we choose to exercise it.  The greatest people in history were not born to it - they stepped up as individuals and made success happen rather than waiting for greatness to be bestowed on them.  Here's just one of many, many examples: https://www.seeker.com/theswim

Direct experience has shown me that we have very few limitations when it comes to our potential for success.  In almost every case, we can actually do whatever it is we think we want to do, provided we are willing to put in the time, energy and sacrifice it takes to get there.  Many of my friends and colleagues have achieved things I thought were impossible through their diligent effort.  Many struggled for years, inch by painful inch, to finally achieve their goals.  Their willpower and determination inspire me every day.

We see uplifting stories all the time of athletes, musicians and other public figures who overcame tremendous odds to achieve their measures of success.  Of course, we never hear about those who didn't.  Of course, being famous is not the point and not at all necessary for success.  They key is to adopt a mindset of success that will enable us to ask ourselves the right questions (or at least not the wrong ones).

Start not with thinking about what you can't do, but rather asking yourself what you CAN do.  Start small if necessary.  A complex knot is ultimately undone be a series of small, seemingly inconsequential movements.  The knots in our lives are not much different.

Even in martial arts there are techniques that look invincible.  There are locks and holds and chokes that seem unbreakable.  There are opponents who are bigger, faster, stronger...better.  Despite this, as long as you are alive and awake, there is always SOMETHING you can do.  A total commitment to survival is the best possible defense.  This has nothing to do with specific techniques and everything to do with mental preparedness.  I encourage my students to try to find something, anything they can do in a situation, to exercise their minds in looking for ways to make continuous progress, even one small step at a time.  I push them to never stop thinking and never stop trying.  I am so proud that they are not just great martial artists but also great people.

It is important to view the world as being filled with endless possibilities, knowing that if needed we can change our approach to go in a new, different, better direction.  There is always the chance to improve and increase our happiness if we avoid the illusion that there is nothing we can do.

Don't give up.  Stick around for the end credits.  Keep going, keep moving.  Grow. Learn. Expand. Extend.  You'll be glad you did.

Trust me, there's always something you can do.   

  

The Illusion of Permanence

(thanks for the inspiration GE)

It was a great day.  One of the best really.  The sun was rising on the beach in Hua Hin, Thailand and we were starting a day at the Peaceful Warrior Camp, surrounded by friends and doing what we love.  Later, as I watched the long, slow sunset and listened to the ocean my mind drifted away --- I could live like this.  I felt like I could stay like this forever.

In an instant of course I knew it wouldn't last.  The week would end and I would return to a rainy, chilly spring in Tokyo.  I would return to the chaos of meetings, conference calls, emails, bills.  But for now, I was here in Paradise.  I tried to stay in the NOW as much as I could that week.

The other side was also true.  I had been working 14 hour days for nearly seven months trying to close a multimillion dollar global contract renewal.  I would go to evening Kali class and then back to work until the last train (or later).  Weekends I was too tired to spend time with my family   All I could do was try to sleep.  I started to get chest pains and shortness of breath.  I added another life insurance policy - just in case.  Those long days and nights seemed like they would never end.  But they did.  Finally, we got the deal signed.  To reward myself, I bought a Rolex.  When I look at it, I remember those long, difficult days and it feels like a million years ago.

We tend to suffer from an illusion of permanence.  Good or bad, we think things will stay the same forever.  We become complacent.  Of course, reality always steps in to show us that this is not true.  Nothing is set in stone, and nothing is forever. Good times and bad eventually fade into memory and, after we are gone, fade into history and disappear just as we do.

To me, this understanding is very, very important.  The good times -  a good job, a good relationship, a sunny day, a vacation, dinner with friends, raising curious young children, Christmas Day, fireworks, a trip to Hawaii, the cherry blossoms - all will come and go.  It's important (and necessary) to allow ourselves to rejoice in the joys of the everyday.  At the same time, these are made all the more precious by knowing that they will be gone.  This reminds us to savor them fully, to squeeze every last drop of goodness from them.  It tells us to hug the people we love whenever we can, to pet the dog or cat one more time, to sleep in or to have the extra cup of coffee or a piece of apple pie.  Soon enough it will all be gone.

The bad goes, too.  We can endure almost anything if we see an end to it.  Tough jobs, tough relationships, economic hard times.  All of this can be endured.  It's important to remember that this, too, will pass.  Try to see the bigger picture and the longer term outcomes.  Suffer now to be a champion later.  Challenge yourself to be patient and learn the value of perseverance.  Remind yourself again and again to remain calm and try to see past the current hardship.  Meditate more.

Martial arts training also helps us to appreciate the impermanence of life more fully.  Our discipline and meditation practice can help us remain calm and centered, and keep our emotions from getting the better of us, good or bad.  Understanding how fragile our bodies can be (and how strong our spirit can be) helps us gain perspective about our place in the world.  Study of Chi/Ki renews our awareness in the connection we have to everything arounds us - the Fabric of Life - and helps us not be so afraid of the inevitable return to that Origin which awaits us all.  We are ONE. Unchanged.  But always changing.

Peace.

Reflections on The Road

Wow, it's been a long road.  I realized that I've been in and around martial arts some way or another for the past 37 years.  During that time, I have explored a variety of different arts including boxing, wrestling, fencing, karate, judo, ninjutsu, iaijutsu, kenjutsu, aikido and kali.  I have achieved black belt ranks in 4 arts (ninjutsu, iaijutsu, aikido, kali) and continue to study kali and express the other arts in it.

It was not a planned approach.  It has been more of a random walk, but I have been very lucky to have had the best instructors guide me throughout.  Time and again, I have met and been inspired by people who showed me the keys to open new doors (thank you Guro Claes) and helped me recognize and remember the connection between mind/body/spirit that underpins what we do.  My teachers called me to a higher purpose in service of my fellow souls, and challenged me to accept that Martial Arts would be much more than just punching and kicking.

I'd like to say that I never gave up - that I still continue training every art I learned.
That's only partially true.  I definitely incorporate everything I have done into my Kali flow, as I should.  However, I no longer actively train Yoshinkan Aikido, Takeda Ryu Aikijujutsu, Ninkage Ryu Ninjutsu or Kiyama Ryu Kenjutsu.  In most cases it's because my teachers have stopped teaching or because I have moved away from them.  Even in Kali Majapahit, which I teach currently, my teachers are in other countries and I am mostly left to build on their basics and discover the art through my own practice.  I am doing my best and I hope they will see some progress in between meeting me.

My martial arts is a core part of my identity.  It is central to who I am and how I am, and I cannot imagine ever being without it.  Achievement of black belt ranks has been a welcome recognition of my commitment but was never the end goal - nor the end - of any part of my training.

Sometimes students stall - for whatever reason - and they can't seem to progress as fast as others.  In some cases, it seems like they really don't progress at all.  This can be frustrating and cause them to lose hope and ultimately stop training entirely.  Maybe they feel ashamed or lose motivation if they don't go fast enough.

The reality is that we will all have peaks and valleys in the training, and especially over a lifetime in the arts things will change from time to time.  It is most important to find your way back to the Path, in whatever form it takes, so your personal journey can continue.

Progress can be measured in days and weeks, but it is the years that matter most.

I am grateful to all my teachers, fellow instructors and students for making my journey so fulfilling.
You remind my why I started, why I continue and why I will never stop.

See you on the mats.

Are you doing all you can?

"Aikido is for everyone, but not everyone is for aikido"

I heard this expression some years ago and have never forgotten it.  When O-Sensei Ueshiba Morihei created modern aikido after the second world war, he wanted an art that leveraged his traditional background of sword, staff and jujitsu.  As well, he wanted an art that would be useful for self-defense (modern rather than battlefield) and that would be applicable in a variety of situations both by average citizens as well as law enforcement.  He wanted something moral and ethical that would promote spirituality, health and well-being and also a sense of calm among the practitioners.  Thus, aikido (The Way of Harmony) came to be.

I love aikido deeply and consider it a cornerstone of who I am as a martial artist and as a person.  You don't do aikido TO someone, you do aikido WITH someone, and I admire the connectedness and unity that aikido gives to how we move.  I think it truly is for everyone, and as a martial artist it is a great art to spend time exploring.

However, everyone is not for aikido.  What does this mean?
Many people are not ready for an art as holistic as aikido.  They want a movie/TV martial art served in 30 minute episodes (including commercial breaks) that can be consumed at random, at leisure.  They don't want to make a lasting commitment to change or have a regular training schedule. They don't want to invest a lot of time or energy.  The worst: they want something which is more violent (see also: "tactical").

All holistic martial arts have a lot in common.  They all deal with each personal sphere (physical, mental, emotional/spiritual).  They all address ideas of connectedness and community.  They all focus on health and personal development, bringing positive confidence to their students.  They all instill discipline and build skills in goal setting and leadership.  They all offer a lifetime journey of exploration and discovery which leads to personal growth and continuous learning.

I am deeply fortunate to have had such a wonderful experience and been influenced by so many amazing teachers over the past 38 years in and around martial arts.  Some have been coaches.  Some have been instructors.  Some have been scientists.  Many are still influencing me today.  Along my journey, I have been able to find keys to open doors, and this has led to new paths of discovery that have kept this path so interesting and fulfilling.  Martial arts has been my greatest investment in myself, and it continues to pay huge dividends every single day.

I want you to recognize, if you don't already, that the choice to learn martial arts in a holistic school, with a good instructor, can be the turning point in your life.  It can be so much more than punching and kicking.  It can bring you so much more than you ever dreamed.  But to get this, you have to be there FOR YOU.  You have to want every benefit and every bit of knowledge.  You have to seek it rather than wait for it to be handed to you.  You have to take ownership of your journey rather than just be led.  You have to do all you can - FOR YOU.

We all have such an incredible opportunity.
Let's make the most of it - together.

Start With Why

(thanks for the inspiration IDP)

A great intro by a very clever guy - Simon Sinek.  There are links to his full length TED talk, as well as his book specifically on the topic for those so inclined.

The idea is as simple as it is revolutionary, at least for most of us.  Starting with WHY helps us identify the motivation for action, creating the desire to change.  We can then determine the process for change and ultimately the result of the change - the WHAT.  In many companies, and for many people  the WHAT rather than the HOW is the starting point.

This is very important to us as martial artists as well.  Many students consider only the what: what techniques, what systems/subsystems, what skills, what belts/ranks/certifications...  Some few get as far as the How: training methods and drills, skills development, methodology, tactics and strategy, philosophy/history/culture.  Many will never even consider the Why.  However, it is very important to understand WHY we study and train martial arts in order to make sure that we are planning the right process and framework to achieve our goals.  For example, If my WHY (motivation) is purely self defense, this will lead to a different set of HOW and WHAT than if I am interested in competition performance or fight choreography or cultural study.

Periodically we need to ask ourselves WHY.  Why are we doing what we do, but also WHY the techniques, training, drills, flows are the way they are.  Many students go through years of being spoon fed every combination and flow.  They mimic their seniors and teachers and do their best to move like we do.  While this is inevitable for beginners, by the time a student is reaching higher level they simply MUST be finding their own flow and learning to express their uniqueness in the art.  The beauty of Kali comes from the fact that it is so individual and that no two teachers move exactly the same way.  The incredible richness and variety of our Southeast Asian heritage gives us so much to draw upon, and once we combine this with our own body type and how we move, we will naturally arrive at our own unique expressions.  It is an ART, after all.

We obsess about the answers to things when it is the QUESTIONS, questions like WHY, that are much more important.  Asking good questions requires deep thinking and analysis; it requires data and hypotheses, testing and feedback.  Good questions lead to good answers.  This does not of course mean stopping class every minute to ask "why?" about every movement.  Rather, the goal should be to reflect deeply on what happened in class on your own.  Consider your own movement, the movement of your partner(s) and the situations.  Let your mind explore every aspect of everything you do and turn it over again and again - dissecting every moment until you can wring all possible understanding from it.  Be deeply intellectually curious about yourself, your partners and the art.  Discuss it with other students and other martial artists from different styles without any judgement over who is right or wrong.  Compare and contrast until you can arrive at a clear understanding of what, how and why you do what you do.  After reflection, bring your questions forward to your instructors before or after class.

Start with Why.

The More You Know

(thanks for the inspiration KJ and KJ)

A month is a long time away.  I left the US with my family on June 29 and by the time I get home it will be July 25 - almost a month on the road.  It's been a busy trip, including a week with my family in Taos, New Mexico. A week of thought leadership listening and learning with my team in Redmond, Washington.  A week of Inspiration with 40,000 people at Microsoft Ready in Las Vegas.  Meetings with my customers (and a few old friends) in San Diego and LA.  Very busy, indeed.  However, in between there have been some welcome times for reflection alone in my hotel room; in the airport lounge; walking from point A to Point B.

I've been in and around the martial arts since I was 14 years old.  Lately, my Kali journey has filled the past 10 years.  I know how lucky I have been to be blessed with such talented, caring, focused, devoted teachers.  I know how lucky I have been to be part of an art that is about Life and Light, about being the very best we can be and then sharing that with those we care about.  I know how lucky I am to wake up every morning and live a life that has beaten all the odds.

The more I know, the more I realize I don't know.

There is so much out there for me - so much of which I have seen only the briefest glimpse, just enough to tempt me to explore further.  I am humbled.

YouTube shows me so many martial artists that are so much better than I am.  So many people that are deeply exploring their art.  So many that are better/faster/stronger/wiser than I could ever be.  It motivates me to keep going forward even though I know I'll never live long enough to reach their level.  I feel inspired because I know I can do and be so much more, and so much more beyond that.

Thank you to all my teachers for investing in me.

Thank you to all my assistants and fellow teachers for loving the art as much as I do and for giving it with such commitment and dedication to so many others.

Thank you to all my students for being brave enough to take this journey with me.

Guro Fred Evrard, my teacher, let me in on a secret some time ago --- Shhh, don't tell anyone else.

IT'S NOT ABOUT MARTIAL ARTS

Yep, that's right.  It's about so much more.

Our journey together is about becoming who we are meant to be, and being the very best version of ourselves.  Martial arts is just the means to that end.  A noble means, but just that.  

Martial Arts can be the HOW but it is not the WHY.

The structure, focus and practice are there to help us regain control of our minds, our bodies and our spirit.  It is for us to develop positive habits that lead to positive outcomes.  It is to reinforce our ability to achieve our goals and remind us that we can do and be whatever we choose to do or be - it is merely up to us to set our direction and keep applying our effort - one step at a time, relentlessly, until we attain whatever we really want.

I love to share this power with my students.  I'm a talker and sometimes guilty of being a bit verbose (you thought I didn't realize that, right?).  My assistants love the art like I do, and they love to share it with you.  They are excited and eager to explain and to share their knowledge.

However, knowledge on its own is not enough.  It is only through practice, daily practice, that we own that knowledge, internalize it, and make it truly our own - OUR KALI.  It is for this reason that our class time must be about talking less and doing more.  Our art can be learned with the mind and felt with the heart, but it must be experienced through the body.

The class was never about me - it was about YOU.  It always will be.  I don't want my assistants to try and show you how much they know and can do.  I want them to get you to see how much YOU know and can do.  There is no place for ego in our dojo.  It must always be about YOU, the students, not us.

I can't wait to get home and be back on the mats with you all.

I miss you so very much.

Training to Train

(thanks for the inspiration KW)

Great discussion over breakfast with one of my assistant instructors.  We talked a lot about training.  Specifically, how to train for training.  What do I mean?

Most students show up to class 1-2 times per week.  At best they come to class fresh, alert, well-rested and ready to learn.  They are open-minded and ready to train in the drills and instruction we give.  At worst they are tired, distracted and unfocused - but we quickly put them back on track, at least for the few hours they are in the dojo.

This is training, of course, but it is not enough.  Not nearly enough.

Becoming proficient in FMA, especially in Kali Majapahit, takes much more.  We need to be facile/fluent with single/double sticks, knife defense, a variety of empty hand styles including Panantukan/Pangamut/Dumog, Hakka Kuntao, Silat and to be competent boxers/kickboxers.  We learn about a variety of other weapons including the barong, sarong, karambit, tomahawk too.  It's a lot to remember.

It is said that martial arts must be understood with the mind, done with the heart and mastered with the body.  This means that we must learn strategy and science (the intellectual component), apply it with our hearts (ethical and moral integrity) and commit the movements to muscle memory (the physical side).  All three are required to progress in capability.

Particularly the foundation skills - footwork, stick manipulation, basic punches.  All of these need to be fully committed to muscle memory like they would be in any other activity.  Professional athletes of every sport spend countless hours on the basics: footwork, swinging, throwing, passing, shooting.  They invest this time until those movements are instinctive and done at will under any circumstance.

Why??

If not, then part of the awareness must be used to execute the physical movement.  Unfamiliar movements require our focused attention - the more delicate/precise the more attention needed.  Once we master a movement through repetition we no longer need our attention there.  This is important since, in fighting, we need our attention to be focused on the adversary and their intention.  We need our attention to perceive any changes in our surroundings.  We need our attention to decide our strategy for each situation.  Playing an instrument first requires mastering the position of the hands, after which attention can be redirected to the sheet music, for example.

Sometimes students tell me I move fast.  Too fast for them to defeat.  This is simply not true.  I am not bigger/stronger/faster than most of my students.  However, when I start moving I do not pause or stop.  That makes me appear faster than I am because I act without hesitation.  How does this work?

Every attacking motion coming to me gets routed or "bucketed" into a particular configuration that flows through a pattern I have committed to muscle memory.  Once I react, I am always redirecting the attacker into one of these "buckets" where their attack can be processed.  Similarly, a pachinko ball does not pause after hitting each pin.  It merely goes to one side or the other until it reaches the destination.  So do I.  Regardless of the attacker's response, I just keep flowing into one of the "buckets" I have drilled again and again.  Then I end the situation as needed.  I've been preparing "buckets" like that for almost 10 years, and always channeling the attacker into them makes it far easier to deal with whatever attacks may come.  The more you train, the more of these solutions can be embedded in muscle memory.

We have about 4 hours per week to train together, during which time we introduce new material, show sample techniques, drill and practice our skills.  We spend time on our fundamentals, but frankly 4 hours per week is not enough to develop fluency in fundamentals very soon.  This requires work outside of the scheduled classes.  I often recommend students to train on their own, and this is why.  Striking and especially the flowing striking combinations we use in Kali take time to commit into muscle memory.   This means DAILY PRACTICE.  Even for a few minutes per day it is very important to work with the sticks.  Just a round or two of Karenza is often enough.

Train Hard.  EVERY DAY. Even for just a few minutes.  The results will surprise you.

Be a Man

(thanks for the inspiration JY)

   He stood up as tall as he could, coming up barely past my shoulder.  My son said proudly "I'm getting bigger.  Soon I'll be a man like you, Dad."  I realized it was a good time for a very special conversation I had been saving.  I asked "Is that what makes a man?  Being tall?"  Immediately he understood.  "No", he replied.  "So what makes a man?" I asked.  "Being Strong?", he suggested.  "Well, most women are much stronger than men." I replied.  "Especially your mom, for example."  "No way", he exclaimed. "You're much stronger than Mom."  I knew I had him.  "Not so.  Strength is not just your muscles.  Strength can be emotional strength and mental strength, too, right?".  He conceded "Yeah, I guess so."  "So what makes a man?" I asked again.  He tried a few other guesses: getting a job (sadly child labor still exists, even in places we have visited together),  having children (close, but just having children does not make you a man), having a car or house (definitely not).  He gave up.  "tell me the answer", he pleaded.

"Compassion"

Compassion. The ability to understand from another's vantage point and show sympathy.  This is what makes a man.  We all have the capacity to harm others, be it physically or emotionally.  A man knows he has this power, but he chooses not to exercise it.  Instead, he exhibits mercy and care for others, knowing that it is man's place to protect and comfort other people.  Animals do not have compassion, it is a uniquely human trait.  According to Buddhism, we cannot solve the problems of others, not all of them, anyway.  Each of us must own his/her karmic path, challenges and all.  However, this does not mean we should be indifferent to suffering.  In fact, quite the opposite.  It is our heart of compassion that connects us and supports us on our respective journeys.

This modern society tries to get everyone to hate each other, thereby dividing us and making us easier to rule.  This "microtribalism" encourages us not just to disagree, but to revile anyone who's opinions do not exactly match our own.  Cities are overcrowded and we are all far too busy.  These social factors push us to be cold toward one another or to waste our attention looking for some "invisible enemy".  Beyond obvious physical abuse of bullying or violent crime, emotional abuse of other children, co-workers, spouses, service providers and others is at an all-time high.  Video after video gets posted on social media showing police hurting regular citizens, people "fighting back" against the system and in general expressing rage at other people.  Everyone is "triggered" by the slightest affront and our default reaction is to attack rather than to engage, discuss and understand.  We've lost our soul. How can we ever recover?

In the face of so much negativity, it becomes even more important to consider the importance of compassion in our everyday lives.  Not just to strangers, but to our own close friends and family.  I see so many cases, some bordering on domestic violence, where men treat their girlfriend/spouse or children very badly - heaping verbal abuse and sometimes even physical abuse out of frustration over their own failures or insecurities.  Everyone feels like they are losing out - that they should have or be more than they are, which leads to feelings of inadequacy, hopelessness and despair.

Religion continues to be used as a reason for dividing us from each other, when it should really be the opposite.  All of the major religions teach compassion, but their worshipers are swayed by extremists who advocate hatred and violence against anyone who may believe differently, and the beliefs are used as just another lame excuse for racism and exclusion.

It's time for us all to take a big step backward and reconnect to our heart of compassion - our natural state of being.  We need to rediscover our connectedness to each other and remember that WE ARE ALL ONE.  The mass media can make the world seem like an awful place.  It's not (at least it doesn't have to be).  The reality is that we can and should make an effort to foster love, kindness and compassion in our little corners and help it spread throughout the world.  Strength and mercy go hand-in-hand.  Strength without mercy is brutality. Mercy without strength is timidness.

It's time to be a man.   

2in1 Seminar - a weekend with Sifu Jack and Guro Evan

What an amazing weekend.  Since our family vacationed in Brisbane, Australia last Christmas I had been in touch with Sifu Jack Leung, who runs several Wing Chun schools in the greater Brisbane Area.  Although we didn't get to train together over Christmas, we kept on corresponding and working on a visit to Tokyo for a seminar.  Almost half a year later - it happened.

As it turns out, Sifu Jack is very good friends with another of my martial arts legends, Guro Evan Tai from Hong Kong.  The two meet frequently, train together and have hosted joint seminars before.  When Sifu Jack mentioned that Guro Evan might also be available I was even more excited!

We spent two days covering a wide variety of topics, with both teachers taking turns and building off what each other showed.  Sifu Jack's Practical Wing Chun was exactly that - fast, powerful, effective and very well suited to self defense applications.  He explains techniques from a very scientific point of view, focusing less on the Chi Kung and more on proper structure, posture and breathing.  The many technical options were based around three simple entries (inside/outside/split) which are universal and common in almost every martial art.

From there we explored a wide variety of potential outcomes using different weapons including strikes/punches, elbows, traps, grabs, kicks and so on covering high line and low line, too.  They all can end up in the same finish, or be adjusted for distance and circumstance.

No one can learn Wing Chun in 2 days, but for all of us without that background it was a very accessible set of material that we can continue to explore on our own.

As for Guro Evan Tai, I have been watching his videos on YouTube for years and always hoped to get a chance to meet him.  For anyone who thinks his videos are sped up, I can tell you - HE REALLY IS THAT FAST!  Guro Evan took us through some flows with knife, single stick and sarong/scarf that were really interesting.  He moves extremely fast but with great precision, exactly as you would expect from an expert at his level.  He also showed us a lot of options, often bringing the same techniques back into the flow in different steps.  Of course we were only scratching the surface in these 2 days but it was really exciting and fun.

Both teachers traveled with friends and family, who were very kind and open.  Together we got to make a lot of new friends in addition to some excellent training.  If you get a chance to see them in Brisbane or Hong Kong - TAKE IT!!  If you see a seminar from either of them (hopefully both) - ATTEND!!  You will be very glad you did.

Great thanks again to everyone who came out to support and, most of all, thanks to Sifu Jack, Guro Evan and their Entourage for sharing and giving us so much good stuff.

See you again next time!!

Why I love Silat

In this cycle, we are introducing some silat.  I must confess, I LOVE IT.  Of the many things that we do in Kali Majapahit, including Sinawali/Serrada, Panantukan/Sikaran, Hakka Kuntao, Muay Thai/Muay Boran and others, silat is always one of my favorites.  Years ago, at the Peaceful Warrior Camp, Dakilang Jeff Espinous introduced us to a variety of movements from his Kali Silat Concept and I was mesmerized.  I have been ever since.  In the interim, I have had a chance to experience some fantastic instructors such as Guru Berni Chu, Sifu James Nener and Guru Maul Mornie, who deepen my understanding further and help me make sense of this beautiful art.  Of course, I was thrilled to see silat shown in movies like Raid/Raid 2 and The Accountant.  Silat was even used as a basis for the fighting style of King T'Challa, the Black Panther of Wakanda.   

Why do I love it so much?

Low Stances

While not exclusively so, silat tends to be characterized by an extremely low stance relative to other fighting styles (like Muay Thai, for example).  As a smaller guy, this is to my advantage.  Practicing the Jurus/Langkas is also great for building leg strength and flexibility in the hips and ankles. Some styles like Cimande/Mande Muda have very low movements and are great for lower body physical conditioning. 

Unusual Weapons

I've always been a "weapons" guy, and silat training exposes us culturally to some of the most exotic tools in the martial arts - sarong, karambit, Kris, sabit, tekpi to name a few.  Even weapons which resemble those of kobudo (sabit and tekpi, for example) are used in a very different manner, which means a lot to learn, explore and discover.  Years ago, I was fascinated by a photo of Silat master Eddie Jafri with little blades held between his toes for kicking opponents...mind-blowing stuff.

3 Levels of Engagement

In silat, things are happening all at once, often on 3 planes at the same time.  While the hands are engaging/trapping and striking, the hips may be in contact and the feet may be entering for foot traps, low kicks, sweeps or other low-line attacks.  The fact that these all happen simultaneously make silat an extremely effective fighting system that is very hard to defend against.

Fighting Strategy

Many people observe the jurus (forms) of silat and comment that they are impractical or ineffective.  This is often derided from a point of view that does not understand the actual fighting movements and strategy inherent in silat.  Unlike other styles which favor showing opponents a tight, close guard, silat is very deceptive.  Often the silat artist will "bait" the opponent by offering a (seemingly) very open and available target such as the head or groin.  This is done to try to "channel" the attacker into launching an expected attack - which results in their defeat.  The open guards are usually done with other targets hidden or covered, limiting the attacker to one good (irresistible) line of attack.  I love the psychological approach of making an opponent commit to a doomed strategy.

Silat is not a static art.  The goal is always to use footwork to reach a place of advantage, flanking to gain access to the opponent's back or using footwork to adjust fighting distance.  

Locking Flows

Having come from a background of strong locking/throwing techniques (aikido/jujutsu/judo) I truly appreciate the beauty of being able to control an attacker or project him/her into other combatants.  However, silat has a wide variety of locking techniques that are rarely seen in other arts.  in silat, we lock with the feet, legs, arms and elbows and lock both standing and on the ground.  In general, these locks are a pathway to one of two outcomes: 1) joint breaks/dislocations or 2) strangles and chokes.  Like quicksand, the more the attacker struggles, the more they are locked, in pain and blacking out.  There are also throws in silat, but less the kind of dynamic projections seen in judo or aikido, and more likely to be sweeps or takedowns, usually flowing straight into locking.

Silat is not a submission style like MMA/BJJ or Aikido.  The locks are designed to dislocate or break joints and usually lead directly into strangles or chokes.

Groundfighting

Filipino Martial Arts has its own groundfighting style, called "dumog", but this is a bit different from silat.  Styles vary of course, but some such as cimande are extremely low and centered around in groundwork.  Almost like the BJJ guard, these styles seek to pin the opponent to the floor where they can be attacked with brutal full-power strikes, elbows and kicks without being able to retreat.  In general, three points of contact (two knees and one hand, two hands and one knee) will be the base while the remaining limb hits or kicks.  BJJ is considered extremely formidable on the ground, but silat is no less deadly.

Adab, Adat, Hormat

These three words, Adab (courtesy), Adat (culture) and Hormat (respect) form the foundation of good silat training.  This is consistent with all good martial arts instruction and promotes healthy, mature and responsible people.  The silat practitioners I have met all exemplify these traits and I am proud to call them my brothers and sisters.

The great thing about Kali Majapahit is the contrast between the different sub-systems.  There is always a lot to see and do, and it takes some time for the mind to feel comfortable with the vastness of the curriculum.

Train hard.